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1、我可不是娇弱的女孩子，我是扛着心酸与委屈毅然前行的女人。
I'm not a delicate girl. I'm a woman who moves forward resolutely carrying heartache and grievances.
2、期望自己是个铁人，没有悲伤，没有情绪，没有泪水，我没有所谓的避风港湾，天大的事都得自己扛着、忍着、熬着、装着。
I hope I'm an iron person, without sadness, emotions, or tears. I have no so-called safe haven. No matter how big the matter is, I have to carry it, endure it, get through it, and pretend.
3、手掌就这般大小，握不住的东西太多了，似乎稍不努力，连快乐都供养不起。透支的快乐需用无数倍的失落感来补偿，原来情绪真的能够沉默到一句话都不想讲。
The palm is just this big. There are too many things that can't be held. It seems that if I don't work hard a little, I can't even afford happiness. The overdrawn happiness needs to be compensated with countless times of loss. Originally, emotions can really be silent to the point that I don't want to say a word.
4、不知不觉中，我们都变了，失去了原本的模样，丢了快乐，变得连自己都感到陌生，学会了强颜欢笑，也知晓了冷暖自知。
Unconsciously, we have all changed, lost our original appearance, lost our happiness, and become so strange to ourselves that we have learned to force a smile and also know to understand by ourselves whether it's cold or warm.
5、这些年，最对不住的就是自己，迁就这个，顾及那个，唯独委屈了自身，最后变成了一个随时发作、喜怒无常的疯子。
These years, the person I'm most sorry for is myself. Accommodating this one, considering that one, only wronging myself. Finally, I have become a crazy person who loses temper at any time and is moody.
6、希望有人能把我看透，却不离开我，知晓我的糟糕，明白我的好。我不太擅长经营关系，最后剩下谁便是谁了。 I hope someone can see through me but not leave me, know my badness, and understand my goodness. I'm not very good at managing relationships. Whoever is left in the end is the one.
7、人这辈子，总是在等，等将来，等不忙，等下次，等有时间，等有条件，等有了钱，可是最后等没了选择，等来了遗憾。
In this life, people are always waiting. Waiting for the future, waiting for not being busy, waiting for next time, waiting for having time, waiting for having conditions, waiting for having money. But in the end, when there are no choices left, regrets come.
8、爱应当是让人变得温柔与勇敢，而非让人时常感到委屈或妥协。
Love should make people become gentle and brave, not make people often feel grievance or compromise.
9、你若计较，鸡毛蒜皮亦能伤你，你若释怀，风风雨雨也无所畏惧。人生在于认真与看淡，也在于执着与勇敢，凡事尽心尽力，而后顺其自然。
If you care about it, even trivial matters can hurt you. If you let it go, you won't be afraid of ups and downs. Life lies in being serious and looking down on things, as well as being persistent and brave. Do everything to the best of your ability and then let it be.
10、没有情绪，是我与你说再见的开端，不破不立，这是我给自己上的最后一课。
Having no emotions is the beginning of me saying goodbye to you. Breaking to establish anew. This is the last lesson I give myself.
